For all of you who were away this past sunday, here is the “how to kill a giant” seminar for men and women.
Men run the adventure of a lifetime – most don’t know where we’re going, and most men probably don’t know where they are going. We are quirky, untamed, some would say, wild. We like power. We like to win our games. We like to win our fights. We like to be on top. King of the hill is a boy’s game, but we learn our life skills from it.
Most of us, at some point in our lives, have given more thought to what to have for dinner over personal hygiene. We like to be brave, or at least appear brave. We connect with heroes who have given their lives for something bigger than themselves – like Mel Gibson in Braveheart, the Hobbit in the Lord of the Rings, Bruce Willis, Harrison Ford, all the way back to John Wayne. We like to come out on top, defy the odds, win, and save the world on the average day’s work.
When left alone, however, a man’s room may be sparse: a mattress on the floor, fridge – contents unknown, opened box of cereal, bag of chips, some books, a computer (we are civilized after all), a pile of laundry with the clean jeans on top, a mostly empty dresser (see pile of laundry), and a 52 inch plasma screen HDTV prominently displayed and connected to a sound system. Not that we aren’t people of substance, we just don’t display. We talk about the deep ways of a woman’s heart; but the waters of a man’s life are just as deep – which is why some men are thought of as understanding.
We do enjoy challenges – not the clean your room type of challenge, but tests of our strength and skill and abilities. We love beating the challenge, and grow in rising to the challenge.
On mother’s day I gave a challenge to the women of Grace Harbor from Proverbs 31. Amazingly, there is no one chapter in the Bible similar to Proverbs 31 for men. Sadly, men, God has given us the whole rest of the book to teach us how to be Godly men despite our thick heads – perhaps that is why He spread so much instruction out over the course of the Bible, so we’re consistently taught about manhood. The Whole Bible is full of true examples of Godly men. How do I know they are true? Their shortcomings are not hidden from us: their scabs, scars, and flaws are displayed just as much as their godliness. In Proverbs 31 we get the picture of a perfect woman and wife; in the rest of the Bible we get the picture of Godly men: hot heads, lustful, temperamental, rash, bold, doubting – but willing and discerning: many good qualities are seen but they are men enough not to hide their flaws. They are secure in God and who they are. These are men we can identify with. They show us how to love God and lead Godly, manly lives. Of the Old Testament men, David is one of the most celebrated: shepherd boy, youngest child (the baby of the family); never big enough to do the man’s work early on, king later on, succumbs to his lusts and yet is forgiven. Passionate songwriter and musician, as well as warrior. His heart is big, but even his own family falls apart because of his shortcomings and sin. And yet, through it all, God describes Him as a “Man after His own heart.” Meaning that despite His inexcusable sin, he repented and stayed the course after the Lord. His victory over the giant Goliath teaches us a lot about being a godly man. And, in the process, we learn how to kill a mortal, giant foe – which is every man’s dream!
Read 1 Samuel 17 (all of it)
1. Giants are impressive (1-11)
a. There are giants in all of our lives – men and women. Whether people, spiritual battles, temptations: whether physical or spiritual all of us are faced with difficult opportunities and challenges. In David’s case, the battle lines were drawn (set the story).
b. This is more than a struggle, for the Israelites this is a death match. Goliath has called for the ultimate showdown, a one on one fight to the death. He’s talked some smack – “I defy the ranks of Israel this day.”
i. The Israelite army responds like most men in this situation: they run for their lives. Their homes, their families, even their very Kingdom and the name of God are not worth fighting for at this moment. In the heat of battle, the truth of a man’s heart is seen; and here we see an army of cowards. The Godly must rise up and fight for the truth.
2. Qualities of a Godly Man
a. First and foremost the Godly man stands for the fame of the living God. David twice mentions the living God as his motivation and desire in this chapter: v. 26 and v. 36. In his home, his work, his battles, his play, his life, a godly man lives and works to promote true knowledge of the living God. In David’s case, it also meant he got to play with weapons which is really cool. For most of us, it means we fight for our families, we fight our own temptations to make God first in our lives, and we work in such a way at work or in class that He is honored, not us and not our boss and not our project. David wasn’t first concerned about the kingdom of Israel; he was concerned about the taunting of the armies of the living God. He saw this as a direct attack on the true God, and he was on God’s side and would fight for His fame.
b. Godly men are dedicated and focused workers (12-15). There was a war raging, yet David knew his part. He played the harp for Saul (ch. 16) and when not employed by Saul he was home, tending to the sheep. That’s where we find him in Ch. 17, tending sheep because his brothers are off at war. Warriors get hazard pay, plunder, victory and declared heroes. Shepherds get to sell their fleece, and pack their lunches.
c. Godly men understand and humbly respect authority (20). David obeyed his father; and learned from his father.
i. David showed up to the battle with his cheese, this shows that David learned something from Jesse about respect: he gave the best – the cheese – to the commander of thousands. His brothers got some bread and grape nuts. In doing this, David learned how to serve and honor in the world, in an honorable way. I’m sure the cheese opened the door to David being able to stroll out to the front lines and check on his brothers – which was his ultimate goal. Father’s, men who will be father’s – we have a responsibility to teach honor and understanding to our children.
ii. David also showed his submissiveness in answering the king’s call to come and try on some armor. What’s so Godly about this? David lives in a controlled wildness: he kills lions and bears, and giants, but is respectful at the same. He is the paradox of a man’s heart: the desire for uncontrolled adventure tempered by the need for authority and direction. David respects authority.
d. A godly man does his research (26-30)
i. Preparation is part of a man’s life, like it or not. God is always working in us to shape us into His likeness: he is preparing us for Him. David’s ultimate desire, from this passage, is for God to be honored and revered, not trampled on by some giant. But he asks multiple times what will happen for the man that slays the giant: he wants to know for sure that the armies of Saul are invested in this opportunity, otherwise it would be foolish to go out on your own and pick a fight without back up. It’s while he’s asking these questions that his brother accuses him of being a gossip just seeking sultry information and neglecting his duties.
1. David has already been anointed by Samuel (name of book) to be the next king. Could jealousy be creeping in? Probably. But even more, this is a frustrating place to be: afraid of your opponent, members of a heartless army, losing: that will make a man snappy. David answers like a true brother – Jesse must have had his hands full at home, yet Jesse kept the course, Fathers, and so should we no matter how difficult it gets. Men, we can approach life like Eliab – negative “those few sheep in the wilderness” (that’s not worth defending), or David – who taunts the armies of the living God. That’s worth fighting for. Stuff is stuff and can’t motivate. God, he’s worth battling giants to know.
e. Confidence also marks the godly man. (31-37). No one thought this boy, youth, could fight and beat the giant. But the situation was so hopeless Saul actually entertained the thought and invited him up. David did not lack from confidence, and he had confidence for 3 reasons:
i. Real confidence comes from the seat of the soul: the living God. It is the peace and certainty of Jesus before Pilate, and on Calvary; Paul before Nero, James in Prison, and Stephen before the stones: confidence in God is not shaken, despite our own failings. David had no experience as a warrior, not merit badges or sharp shooter awards. He wasn’t even enlisted. Yet He was confident in God (read 37).
ii. 2nd – Experience gives confidence. Remember other life situations where the Lord delivered you when you are challenged. What happened? What did you do? If I killed a bear and took a sheep from its jaw, if I killed a lion and grabbed its beard, I can kill a giant too.
iii. 3rd – competence gives confidence. We are most confident where we are competent. God has developed competencies in us to be leveraged for His glory. David’s competence was in his sling, not the armor of the king. (38-39). Don’t just accept what the world offers and assume it is the best way. Godly men trust the Lord first, and are confident of His work and preparation in our lives. What looks wise to the world is not necessarily so in the eyes of God: we must be discerning. And where we have discerned, developed our competencies, relied on the Lord for confidence, only one thing is left.
3. The Godly man must go and fight (40-48)
a. David goes and picks five smooth stones. Now he is preparing for the actual battle. Now is not the time for weak rocks or jagged stones that will get caught in the sling and go off trajectory. Kingdoms are in the balance, do your preparation men of god and don’t cut corners. Before approaching the Giant, get your stones. Don’t get too many so that you will be weighed down – David was confident with five, and felt the weight would give him proper balance. There is much that can distract us from our great goals of loving Christ and spreading his message – and our own equipment can distract us if we’re not careful.
b. When you go to battle (or into a day or to work or home or the gym or where it is that you go) – go there to stand for God – whatever you do, do it for the glory of God.
i. So David is prepared: God is preparing us now, in experience, in times of fellowship with him through prayer and study, and in relationship with others. Let God shape you and prepare you. I doubt David imagined there would be a target greater than a lion when he was a shepherd, yet that was preparation, not the end.
ii. Speak the truth in battle. David didn’t talk trash about the Giant’s mom – who must have been huge – or his army of Philistines. He didn’t talk smack like the Philistine who referenced dogs and David’s flesh being eaten. David spoke the truth.
1. He made his motivation and intentions clear. Goliath knew David’s desired outcome (read 45-47). David’s confidence moved this way beyond smack, to truth. He knew God’s will for the situation and would see it through – even using Goliath’s own sword for the beheading. Smack would have been: I will cut off your head with your own sword. Truth is: the Lord will deliver you into my hands. That is a whole different level.
c. Once the diplomacy is done, attack.
i. David runs to the giant, not approaching, running: wildness with purpose. Read 48-54.
One last point I want to make, a challenge for all of us, but especially the men. Godly men are engaged: their head’s are in it. That’s a bad pun, but here’s what I mean. Read 55. Saul should have known David (16:18-22 set story). At this point, Saul’s manhood was on the diminishing side, his leadership was waning, and David’s just beginning. This is a contrast of loser and winner: Saul was softened by his success, and didn’t pay attention to detail, didn’t listen, he wasn’t engaged. A godly man stays engaged: in his work, in his relationships, in all of his life. When we check out, problems happen (see David and Bathsheba). A godly man should been attentive and engaged, not aloof.